Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Wedding Night Sex

Give yourself a break on your wedding night.

Dr. Mary Ann Bartusis surveyed couples on their honeymoons. 90% of them rated their wedding night sex from 7 to 10 (on a scale of 10). Ideally, of course, 100% would have reported 10s. But let's face it, there are often such unrealistic expectations that there is no way you could meet them!

And you are likely to be tired. Most weddings are at least a little stressful -- they are big events, invested with all sorts of pressures. You are juggling friends, relatives and staff, who are all thrown together and out of their element. And if you have been planning the wedding for ages, it can be a bit of an anti-climax when its over. (Oops, bad pun.)

And then add a bunch of pressure to perform on top of it all!

Remember: your sex life is going to get better and better over time. It doesn't peak the first night of marriage!

Happy Couples, Happy Planet!

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9 Comments :

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If people can understand this, it solves most of the new marriage problems.

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At 3:33 AM , Blogger cristian said...

You are right about the wedding night and I guess that a question always troubled me: when do you have time for sex on your wedding's night?:)) You don't:))) But it never crossed my mind until I reached the age of 22.
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At 12:58 PM , Anonymous obie80 said...

I don't know about stress and pressures and the sex will get better later. My wife was too tired on our wedding night and I thought she could be tired, so I tried to be tolerant. The first night on the cruise for our honeymoon same excuse. I should have had the marriage anulled right then and there.

 
At 10:06 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

If having great sex on your wedding night is a top priority, then you need to plan for it like you did the bridesmaids dresses. You will have planned your wedding to have ended by 6:00 and in your hotel room by 7:30. Not driving to the airport, that can wait till the morning or better yet the afternoon of the next day so you can relax in the king size bed till 12:00 because you booked the room for late check out.

 

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